I sometimes feel obsessed with potential.

You know the feeling, right? It’s like you want to jump out of your own skin. Your mind starts creating all these insanely positive scenarios, one after another, and suddenly you get this burst of joy so strong that you almost feel like you can levitate.

Wild, I know.
I find the whole thing fascinating.

Over the course of my tech life, and especially over the last decade between Croatia and the Bay Area, I’ve been surrounded by some incredibly smart people with no shortage of ideas.

And every now and then, a few ideas start converging at the same time. One conversation connects to another. One possibility opens up another. One introduction creates a completely new path.

And then boom.
Potential bomb!

You start seeing all these possible futures. Some of them might happen. Most of them probably won’t. But just the possibility itself can send you flying.

And to be fair, I think there is something beautiful about that.

When you allow yourself to imagine bigger, the playing field gets bigger too. Your mind starts accepting possibilities that were not even on the table before. Even if only a small part of it happens, you are already moving in a wider field than before.

I love that feeling.
But I also know I need to be careful with it.

Because potential can be fuel, but it can also become a fantasy.

What’s the difference between a real opportunity and just “potential-vibing”? Is that a term!? Can we use it from now on!?

Anyway, what’s the difference between vision and delusion?

I don’t think the answer comes when you’re flying.

It comes when you sit back down.
And that’s where presence comes in.

You have to sit still, without distractions, and ask yourself: what part of this potential actually matters to me?

What part of it connects to my true desires?

It’s super easy to get high on possibility, but it’s much harder to be honest about what you actually want.

That’s why I think potential needs presence.

One Line to Carry With You

Truly yours, this moment. 

Armando

I want to talk about what it really means to put yourself first.
Or maybe better said, becoming the one in your own life.

The person you can rely on. The person who takes responsibility for their health, energy, attention, and peace.

Because I keep noticing something.

A lot of people put everyone else first: family, friends, work, team, clients, whatever the case is.
And listen, empathy is beautiful and altruism is needed. Being there for people matters, I’m not arguing against that.

But too often, people put others first and completely abandon themselves in the process.

When I was a kid, my grandmother used to say:
Whoever saves themselves can save the world.

At the time, I didn’t really understand it. Honestly, I thought it sounded selfish.

Then I got older and realized what she meant:
If you don’t take care of yourself first, what exactly are you giving to others?

Your exhaustion and stress? Resentment? Your half-present self?

That doesn’t really serve anyone.

Real service starts when you are grounded enough to actually show up.
For me, this always comes back to health.

Health is the foundation. If you don’t have health, everything else becomes questionable.

You can have money, but if your body is falling apart, what is it really worth?
You can have the perfect job, but if your mind is constantly stressed, how much can you actually enjoy it? You can have people around you, but if you’re not present, are you really with them?

That’s why putting yourself first is not ego.

It’s responsibility.

It means you stop outsourcing your wellbeing and you stop waiting for someone else to save your day. You stop pretending you can pour from an empty cup forever.

You become the person in your life who takes ownership.

And once you become stronger, healthier, calmer, and more present, you naturally become better for everyone around you.

Being number one in your life doesn’t mean putting yourself above everyone. It means finally putting yourself where you belong, at the center of your own responsibility.

So my dear friend, be the one.
Not above others, but fully responsible for yourself.

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Truly yours, this moment. 

Armando

You can be scared and still take action.
I think we forget that.

We always wait to feel ready, or for the fear to disappear.
We keep waiting for some external factor to make it easier.

At some point, action has to enter the picture.

Now that I think about it, I was always a bit risk-prone. Maybe even drawn to the unknown.

I remember one time I was invited to speak at an event in Shenzhen, China.
Because of visa issues, the whole trip became a mess. I was told I could get a visa on arrival, but at one of the stops, they wouldn’t let me board without one.

So there I was, sleep-deprived, stuck in transit, waiting for people in China to confirm what could even be done. Eventually, the only option was to reroute through Hong Kong and try to enter Shenzhen from there.

At the time, it felt like a huge unknown.

No sleep. No visa in hand. No certainty. Not knowing if I would cross the border. And then, if everything somehow worked out, I still had to get on stage and speak to a big audience.

Now, looking back, it doesn’t sound that dramatic.

But in that moment, it was.

And that’s the point!

Fear is always louder in the moment.

Your mind starts building scenarios, your whole body gets all tense.
Everything feels bigger than it probably is.

And then…you take one step. And another.

And suddenly you’re not just worrying anymore.
You’re no longer stuck in your head.

You’re making it happen.

I like to use the gym comparison for this.

You don’t build strength by thinking about lifting weights. You build it by doing the reps.

Please read that again.

Because it’s the same with fear.

Every time you act while feeling uncomfortable, you do a rep.
You teach your system:

I can feel this and still move.

That doesn’t mean being reckless or ignoring real danger. It means learning the difference between a true stop sign and the natural discomfort of growth.

That’s where presence helps.
Pause, breathe, and notice the fear.

And then you ask yourself:

Is this fear protecting me?
Or is it just trying to keep me familiar?

Most of the time, the thing you want is on the other side of a few uncomfortable steps.

You don’t need to feel fearless.
You just need to keep taking action.

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Truly yours, this moment. 

Armando

You are late.

Everyone is using AI. Everyone is moving faster. Everyone is killing it with their company. Everyone is doing better.

You don’t believe me?

Good.

You shouldn’t.

Because we both know it’s not true.

First of all, most of what we see is exaggerated and/or fake.
And even when it’s real, we rarely see the full picture.

Everywhere you look, it’s either negative news or over-the-top success stories. Funny enough, both are often selling you the same thing.

Anxiety.

And the price is high.

Your health, clarity and peace.

So let’s talk about urgency.

That feeling that you need to do something now. That you are behind. That if you don’t act immediately, you’ll miss the thing that was supposed to change everything.

I know that feeling very well.

When it shows up, I like to do something simple. I play the whole movie forward.
Let’s say I get the thing, milestone, deal, whatever it is.

Then I ask myself:

What happens next?

And usually, that’s where the illusion starts breaking.
I realize I wasn’t actually chasing the thing.

I was chasing the feeling behind the thing.

Relief. Freedom. Safety. Recognition. Peace. Whatever it is.

And then comes the important part.

That feeling is usually much closer than we think.

Not always fully and not perfectly but enough to realize that I don’t need to let fake urgency hijack my day.

That’s why you don’t let it get to you because it’s a trap.
Urgency makes you believe that everything depends on this next move.

Most of the time, the truly urgent things are much simpler.

Get your health back.
Spend time with the people you love.
Protect your mind.
Do the work at your pace.

Everything else can probably wait.

One Line to Carry With You

Truly yours, this moment. 

Armando

I love to be on the move.
There’s no other way to put it.

And yes, I know this might sound a bit paradoxical coming from someone who keeps talking about stillness, presence, and doing nothing.

But movement and presence are not opposites; they belong together.

But today I want to talk about a different kind of movement: the everyday kind.
The kind that might not fix everything, but honestly, it helps so much.

Our bodies were designed to move. We all know that.
We can run, jump, bend, climb, carry, reach, play, how fricking amazing is that?

And yet, modern life keeps removing movement from the day.

We sit in chairs, we sit in cars, we all stare at phones with our necks bent in weird angles.
Convenience with every chance we get.

And then there’s the social part too.

We’re spending less time with friends, less time outside, less time interacting with people in real life.

All of this slowly removes the little movements from our day.

Let’s go even deeper for a second:
You live on the third floor, but take the elevator because you don’t want to stop typing on your phone. You’re looking at your phone and miss the chance to hold the door for an old lady walking in front of you. You park right in front of the place because it’s convenient, even though a five-minute walk would do you good. I could go on and on.

The thing is, it all compounds, in both directions.

Less movement compounds into fogginess, low energy, and disconnection.
More movement compounds into clarity, better mood, better health, and more presence.

Being on the move, consciously and deliberately, paired with being present, is one of the healthiest things you can do for yourself. So don’t wait for a workout to move.

One Line to Carry With You

Truly yours, this moment. 

Armando

Don’t let anyone or anything take the joy out of your day.

Every day, something tries. A message, a call, an email, a small disturbance that pulls you out of your state. We all get those.

Someone reminds you of something, but in a rude way.
A colleague complains, but in that subtle toxic tone.
A misunderstanding with a friend who’s going through something and can’t think clearly.

These small emotional “interruptions” show up all the time.

And yet… the day itself is great. Almost by default.

Look outside, the scenery around you.
Look at yourself, two strong hands, a body that can do so much.
Think about how much your mind can process, how much you’re capable of.

Look at the tools we have. The food we have.

There’s a lot to be grateful for.
More than enough to make the day great.

Now, I know what you might say.
“Armando, you can’t just ignore challenges.”

I agree. That’s not the point.

Challenges are part of it. They make you better.

But they don’t have to take your state with them.

At worst, they take a moment, a few seconds of a reaction.

But the very next second, you can go back to your default, back to a joyful day.

That’s the practice.

You remind yourself what actually matters.

Life will keep sending challenges. You don’t control that.

But you can control what you return to.

One Line to Carry With You

Truly yours, this moment. 

Armando

I know why you can’t concentrate.

It’s not because you lack discipline or because you’re lazy.
And it’s definitely not because you need another system or another advisor.

You’re just overstimulated. It’s plain simple.
You’re overwhelmed with the amount of information.

Think about it.

You wake up and immediately check your phone.
Messages, emails, notifications, sounds, my god, you’re sucked in right away.

Your day has barely started, and your mind is already full.

And then you’re trying to focus.
Of course it’s hard!

You’re trying to create something
on top of a full pile of information.

There’s no way around it, you have to become aware that more information doesn’t help.
It makes it worse.

And yet, that’s the trap we fall into. Some more, some less.

Another video that might inspire, another podcast that could be life-changing.
Yet another business idea that might be the next big hit…

The problem isn’t lack of information.
It’s a lack of mental space.

Space to think, space to sit and be bored.
To do nothing, and allow your mind to roam freely on its own.

That’s where clarity comes from.
You don’t need more input.
You need more silence.

One Line to Carry With You

Truly yours, this moment. 

Armando

I get this question a lot.

How can you be super ambitious…
and still be this calm?

Like, which one is it?

And I get why people ask.
Because from the outside, it feels like you have to choose.

Either you’re pushing hard, chasing things, building…
or you’re taking it easy, being present, not stressing.

For me, it never felt like a real choice.
I genuinely believe you can be both.

Not as a compromise. But as a system.
And I think that belief matters.
Because if your mind is open to it, your actions follow.

Also, what you’re seeing now – this “calm” version – didn’t just happen.
This is years of trying, adjusting, failing…
but always with a direction in mind.

Let’s break one thing first.
Working all the time doesn’t mean you’re productive.
And it definitely doesn’t mean you’re ambitious.

You can be extremely ambitious
and still not run around like crazy all day.

The shift for me came when I realized something simple.
That “chill time”… doesn’t hurt your ambition.
It actually supports it.

That’s the part most people don’t see.
They think slowing down is risky.
But what’s actually risky is never slowing down.

For me, this became very clear with something I call the +50 game.
I imagine myself 50 years from now.
Older, slower, different body.
And I ask myself:
What kind of life do I want then?

And the answer is always simple.
I want to be healthy, I want to be able to move.
I want to enjoy life and be around people I care about.

So everything I do now…has to support that version.

And once that becomes clear,
everything else starts organizing around it.

Including work, yes.
Because work changes. Markets change.
Opportunities come and go.
You can’t control most of it.

But you can shape your work around your core values.
You can build it as something that lasts, not just something that works for now.
And when you do that, the trajectory takes care of itself.

And then on a day-to-day level…you need to structure both.

Time to push.
Time to slow down.
Both need to exist.

Because they come from the same place.
And that place is presence.

Sitting with yourself.
No distractions.
Realizing you already have a lot.
Everything else becomes a bonus.That’s what gives you the freedom to be both.
Ambitious… and calm.

You don’t have to choose.

One Line to Carry With You

Truly yours, this moment. 

Armando

You know what I’m talking about.
You read something, and you immediately jump to a conclusion.

Someone wins, and you instantly start comparing.
Some change happens, and you start worrying.
Before you know it, someone does something big and you feel behind.

And lately, with everything going on, AI, wars, instability, it’s all even more amplified.

When I catch myself doing that, I remind myself that whatever I read or see is just a story.
I don’t need to react or form an opinion right away.

I mean, it might not even be true.
It might not even be reality.

You might have just made it up in your head.

But instead of trying to think “better” or force a positive angle, I do something much simpler.

I make a deliberate choice not to follow every thought.

I pause.
And then I take a step back and zoom out.

And 9 out of 10 times, almost immediately, the intensity drops.
The story loses its grip.Because not everything we think deserves our attention.
And once you really see that, things get quieter.

One Line to Carry With You

Truly yours, this moment. 

Armando

This is my 50th email.
That feels good.
Thank you for being here.

I’m currently in the Bay Area.
Everything moves super fast.
Ideas everywhere, new things being built, everybody pitching something.
You start feeling like everything already exists.

And that’s exactly why this matters.
I’ve been thinking about ideas.

It’s interesting how attached people get to them.
Sometimes even delusional about it, protecting them as if that’s the most valuable thing they have, arguing over who had it first. It’s just ridiculous.

I’ve been there too.

I’ve had people tell me I took their idea.
And I’ve had people take mine.

But over time, as I raised my awareness, something became crystal clear: Ideas are cheap.

They’re everywhere. Most of them are just a mix of what you’ve seen, heard, and experienced.

Think about it – as you’re pitching your idea, there are probably dozens, if not hundreds of people out there with the same notion.

So the idea itself?
It’s not the edge.

You are the edge.

Your perspective. Your taste (very underrated).
The way you see things and most importantly, the way you execute.

That’s the part that can’t be copied.

So the bet is simple.

You bet on yourself.
Not on the idea.

Stop worrying if someone already thought of it.
Take what you have, run it through your lens, put it out, and iterate.

That’s where the leverage is.

Because in the long run, it’s not about the idea.
It’s about how you deliver yourself through that idea.

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Truly yours, this moment. 

Armando